Dear Cheryl,

Help! I am getting married in 3 months and so far my bridesmaids haven’t helped me with anything! I’m starting to believe they think being a bridesmaid means they get to wear a pretty dress and walk down the aisle. The only time we have all been together was to pick out said dress.

I’ve mentioned things I would like to do and no one has offered to help me. I need some help but they are always “too busy” (and even seem annoyed that I mention wedding things!). I’m at the point where I’m ready to tell them I don’t want them to be part of my wedding.

My mother had to plan my bridal shower and one bridesmaid already said she has to work that day. I didn’t want to have her in my wedding but felt obligated because she is my fiancé’s sister. She’s self centered and everytime she isn’t the center of attention she sits in the corner and pouts. This is a 23-year old woman! I don’t want to deal with her drama now let alone on the wedding day.

I feel…

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